Boondocking for Women: How to Thrive Solo Off the Grid

Boondocking is more than just parking your rig in a remote area—it’s about freedom, self-sufficiency, and getting off the beaten path. For women traveling solo, it can be empowering, exhilarating, and, yes, a little intimidating. I’ve been there. But the rewards far outweigh the risks when you’re prepared. In this guide, I’ll walk you through how to thrive solo while boondocking off the grid.

What Is Boondocking, Exactly?

Boondocking, also called dry camping or dispersed camping, means staying in your RV or van without hookups—no water, no power, no sewer. You’re usually camping on free public land like BLM or national forests. It’s quiet, remote, and blissfully disconnected. For a deeper look at how this differs from traditional camping, check out our breakdown of off-grid camping vs. boondocking.

While the term can apply to any rig, solo female travelers face unique challenges and considerations. Safety, preparedness, and mindset matter even more when you're going it alone.

Safety First: Trust Your Gut, Prepare for the Worst

Let’s be honest: boondocking as a woman comes with added layers of caution. The good news? You can mitigate most risks with a solid plan and the right tools.

• Tell someone where you are. Share your location with a friend or use a device like the Garmin inReach Mini or Bivy Stick for emergency check-ins.
  
  

• Don’t advertise you’re alone. Use window coverings and consider leaving a second pair of shoes or a large dog bowl outside your rig.
  
  

• Park smart. Avoid dead-end roads and always have an exit route. Pull in facing out, especially in remote spots.
  
  

• Camp near others. I never stay where there are no other campers around. I always give people space, but total isolation isn’t my style.
  
  

• Carry protection. Whether that’s bear spray, an airhorn, or something more substantial is your call—but have something.
  
  

• Run through a mental drill. Know what you’d do if someone knocked on your door at 2 a.m. (Hint: you don’t have to open it.)
  
  

• Trust your instincts. Repeat: TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS. If something feels off, it probably is.
  
  

If you’re prepping your rig for extended travel, my road trip checklist for RV life is a great place to start—even if you don’t have pets.

For an example of one of my favorite solo-friendly spots, check out my post on Playa Pichilingue in Baja—yes, I boondocked there solo and felt completely at ease thanks to other respectful campers around.

Power, Water, and Pooping in Peace

Boondocking means relying on your own systems. It’s liberating, but you’ve got to plan.

• Power: A solid portable solar generator is a must. I’ve used and reviewed several, including the Anker Solix F1200 and Bluetti AC70.
  
  

• Water: Bring more than you think. I travel with collapsible jugs and a backup water filter. My guide on van life water filtration dives deeper.
  
  

• Toilets: I use a portable composting toilet, but a bucket setup (aka the “luggable loo”) works too. Check out my post on RV toilet valve maintenance if you’re dealing with a fixed rig.
  
  

Pro tip: If you’re camping somewhere hot, rig a portable fan setup. Your sanity will thank you.

Cooking and Daily Life

Cooking off-grid isn’t glamorous, but it can be delicious with a little prep.

• Propane stoves are reliable. Bring extra fuel.
  
  

• Foil packet meals and skillet hashes are lifesavers.
  
  

• Coolers work fine for short trips, but longer stays call for a 12V fridge.
  
  

If you like your smoothies or coffee frappes (don’t judge), I’ve reviewed the Ninja Blast Portable Blender—USB-rechargeable and surprisingly powerful.

Staying Connected (Without Losing Your Mind)

Boondocking can feel isolating. That’s part of the appeal, but also a challenge.

• Download offline maps ahead of time.
  
  

• Preload playlists, audiobooks, or shows.
  
  

• Journal or take voice notes. It helps more than you think.
  
  

• Reach out to communities like our MissadVANture Facebook group when you’re feeling off. We get it.
  
  

Final Thoughts: Boondocking for Women Isn’t Just Possible—It’s Powerful

There’s a confidence that builds when you wake up in a quiet place you found yourself, make your own coffee, and don’t see another human until you want to. Boondocking teaches resilience, resourcefulness, and joy in simplicity.

You don’t need to be fearless. You just need to be ready.

For more honest insights on solo RV life, check out Rolling Solo, my $5 CAD eBook with real talk, gear advice, and survival hacks for full-time nomads.

Author: Royanne, desert dreamer, cautious optimist, and solo traveler since before it was Instagrammable.

Your van. Your rules. Just bring snacks.