Boondocking for Women: How to Thrive Solo Off the Grid
August 26, 2024
Boondocking is more than just parking your rig in a remote area—it’s about freedom, self-sufficiency, and getting off the beaten path. For women traveling solo, it can be empowering, exhilarating, and, yes, a little intimidating. I’ve been there. But the rewards far outweigh the risks when you’re prepared. In this guide, I’ll walk you through how to thrive solo while boondocking off the grid.
What Is Boondocking, Exactly?
Boondocking, also called dry camping or dispersed camping, means staying in your RV or van without hookups—no water, no power, no sewer. You’re usually camping on free public land like BLM or national forests. It’s quiet, remote, and blissfully disconnected. For a deeper look at how this differs from traditional camping, check out our breakdown ofoff-grid camping vs. boondocking.
While the term can apply to any rig, solo female travelers face unique challenges and considerations. Safety, preparedness, and mindset matter even more when you're going it alone.
Safety First: Trust Your Gut, Prepare for the Worst
Let’s be honest: boondocking as a woman comes with added layers of caution. The good news? You can mitigate most risks with a solid plan and the right tools.
- Tell someone where you are.Share your location with a friend or use a device like the Garmin inReach Mini or Bivy Stick for emergency check-ins.Don’t advertise you’re alone.Use window coverings and consider leaving a second pair of shoes or a large dog bowl outside your rig.Park smart.Avoid dead-end roads and always have an exit route. Pull in facing out, especially in remote spots.Camp near others.I never stay where there are no other campers around. I always give people space, but total isolation isn’t my style.Carry protection.Whether that’s bear spray, an airhorn, or something more substantial is your call—but have something.Run through a mental drill.Know what you’d do if someone knocked on your door at 2 a.m. (Hint: you don’t have to open it.)Trust your instincts. Repeat: TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS.If something feels off, it probably is.
Tell someone where you are.Share your location with a friend or use a device like the Garmin inReach Mini or Bivy Stick for emergency check-ins.
Don’t advertise you’re alone.Use window coverings and consider leaving a second pair of shoes or a large dog bowl outside your rig.
Park smart.Avoid dead-end roads and always have an exit route. Pull in facing out, especially in remote spots.
Camp near others.I never stay where there are no other campers around. I always give people space, but total isolation isn’t my style.
Carry protection.Whether that’s bear spray, an airhorn, or something more substantial is your call—but have something.
Run through a mental drill.Know what you’d do if someone knocked on your door at 2 a.m. (Hint: you don’t have to open it.)
Trust your instincts. Repeat: TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS.If something feels off, it probably is.
If you’re prepping your rig for extended travel, myroad trip checklist for RV lifeis a great place to start—even if you don’t have pets.
For an example of one of my favorite solo-friendly spots, check out my post onPlaya Pichilingue in Baja—yes, I boondocked there solo and felt completely at ease thanks to other respectful campers around.
Power, Water, and Pooping in Peace
Boondocking means relying on your own systems. It’s liberating, but you’ve got to plan.
- Power:A solidportable solar generatoris a must. I’ve used and reviewed several, including theAnker Solix F1200andBluetti AC70.Water:Bring more than you think. I travel with collapsible jugs and a backup water filter. My guide onvan life water filtrationdives deeper.Toilets:I use a portable composting toilet, but a bucket setup (aka the “luggable loo”) works too. Check out my post onRV toilet valve maintenanceif you’re dealing with a fixed rig.
Power:A solidportable solar generatoris a must. I’ve used and reviewed several, including theAnker Solix F1200andBluetti AC70.
Water:Bring more than you think. I travel with collapsible jugs and a backup water filter. My guide onvan life water filtrationdives deeper.
Toilets:I use a portable composting toilet, but a bucket setup (aka the “luggable loo”) works too. Check out my post onRV toilet valve maintenanceif you’re dealing with a fixed rig.
Pro tip: If you’re camping somewhere hot, rig aportable fan setup. Your sanity will thank you.
Cooking and Daily Life
Cooking off-grid isn’t glamorous, but it can be delicious with a little prep.
- Propane stovesare reliable. Bring extra fuel.Foil packet mealsand skillet hashes are lifesavers.Coolerswork fine for short trips, but longer stays call for a 12V fridge.
Propane stovesare reliable. Bring extra fuel.
Foil packet mealsand skillet hashes are lifesavers.
Coolerswork fine for short trips, but longer stays call for a 12V fridge.
If you like your smoothies or coffee frappes (don’t judge), I’ve reviewed theNinja Blast Portable Blender—USB-rechargeable and surprisingly powerful.
Staying Connected (Without Losing Your Mind)
Boondocking can feel isolating. That’s part of the appeal, but also a challenge.
- Download offline mapsahead of time.Preload playlists, audiobooks, or shows.Journal or take voice notes.It helps more than you think.Reach outto communities like ourMissadVANture Facebook groupwhen you’re feeling off. We get it.
Download offline mapsahead of time.
Preload playlists, audiobooks, or shows.
Journal or take voice notes.It helps more than you think.
Reach outto communities like ourMissadVANture Facebook groupwhen you’re feeling off. We get it.
Final Thoughts: Boondocking for Women Isn’t Just Possible—It’s Powerful
There’s a confidence that builds when you wake up in a quiet place you found yourself, make your own coffee, and don’t see another human until you want to. Boondocking teaches resilience, resourcefulness, and joy in simplicity.
You don’t need to be fearless. You just need to be ready.
For more honest insights on solo RV life, check outRolling Solo, my $5 CAD eBook with real talk, gear advice, and survival hacks for full-time nomads.
Author:Royanne, desert dreamer, cautious optimist, and solo traveler since before it was Instagrammable.
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